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I Want More + The Feeling Before the Proof

Two books for the two sides of the same question: what you haven't said out loud, and what you can't yet prove.

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  • One calm, clear sentence for whichever week you're in
  • 2 e-books: 15 chapters and 6 bonus tools
  • Both PDFs by email right after payment
The two e-books of the bundle: I Want More and The Feeling Before the Proof

§ 01 · Which book for which week

Which book is for which week of your life

Two different weeks, two different first steps. Find yours below.

  1. "You feel distant, and you've been silent for years"

    Start with I Want More

    The Three-Question Method: what to say, to whom, and where to start.

    Book 1 · 80 pages · 7 chapters
  2. "Something changed, and you can't put a finger on it"

    Start with The Feeling Before the Proof

    One calm first question, word for word, in three tones, plus the first ten minutes minute by minute.

    Book 2 · 66 pages · 8 chapters
  3. "Both are true"

    Read them in either order

    They don't repeat each other.

    The bundle · both books

A feeling is not proof. Silence is not safety. Both can be turned into one calm, clear sentence.

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  • The words for what you haven't said out loud
  • A plan for either answer, yes or no
  • Read in either order: they don't repeat each other

§ 02 · What's in the bundle

What's in the bundle

I Want More: The Quiet Crisis After 40, e-book cover

Book 1 · 80 pagesI Want More: The Quiet Crisis After 40

The Three-Question Method, 7 chapters, word-for-word phrases for an honest conversation, and 3 bonus tools.

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Inside, 7 chapters:

  • Ch. 1 · The Quiet Crisis: why this happens after years together, and why it doesn't mean "I'm broken."

  • Ch. 2 · The Three-Question Method: three written questions and one concrete first step.

  • Ch. 3 · Why Silence Is More Dangerous Than Honesty: how silence wears closeness down.

  • Ch. 4 · The Honest Conversation Script: word-for-word phrases, in a gentle and a direct tone.

  • Ch. 5 · If He Doesn't Hear You the First Time: a plan for round two.

  • Ch. 6 · Getting Your Desire and Your Voice Back: a short practice for reconnecting with yourself.

  • Ch. 7 · What's Next: where to go from here.

What you walk away with:

  • A precise list of what you've been holding back
  • The actual words for the first minute of the conversation
  • A plan for round two if he brushes it off
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The Feeling Before the Proof, e-book cover

Book 2 · 66 pagesThe Feeling Before the Proof

A guide for the weeks when you notice a change and can't prove anything: 8 chapters, one calm first question, a fourteen-day plan for yourself, and 3 printable bonus tools.

See all 8 chapters

Inside, 8 chapters:

  • 1 · The Shirt He Now Irons on Sunday

  • 2 · The View From the Door

  • 3 · Three Mistakes in the First Week

  • 4 · The Question You Ask First

  • 5 · What He Says Back (and What It Means)

  • 6 · The Second Line

  • 7 · The Weeks You Can't Get Back

  • 8 · If the Answer Is Yes / If the Answer Is No

What you walk away with:

  • Six areas to sort what you've noticed, and a clear rule for when it's time to talk
  • Five things he might say back and what each one can and can't mean
  • Both roads: the first days if the answer is yes, and if it's no
Read more about The Feeling Before the Proof
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  • A fourteen-day plan for yourself while you wait
  • Word-for-word phrases in a gentle and a direct tone
  • 146 pages in total: 80 + 66

§ 03 · Bonus tools

6 bonus tools, 3 from each book

With I Want More:

  • "10 Phrases for an Honest Conversation" card: one page for your phone, in two tones.

  • "One Honest Sentence a Day" template: one week, one honest list.

  • "3 Signs You've Gone Quiet Again" checklist: a short monthly self-check.

With The Feeling Before the Proof, printable:

  • What to Write Down and What Not To

  • Your First 72 Hours After You Notice

  • Questions for a Professional

§ 04 · Read a page from each book

Read a page from each book

"There's a particular kind of silence that happens at dinner tables after enough years of marriage, and it isn't the comfortable kind."
I Want More · From Chapter 1: The Quiet Crisis
"It's a blue shirt. For years he wore it straight off the hanger, creased at the elbows. Now, on Sunday evenings after dinner, he irons it himself in the spare room, collar first, and hangs it on the back of the door for Monday."
The Feeling Before the Proof · From Chapter 1: The Shirt He Now Irons on Sunday
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  • An actual plan: what to say, to whom, and where to start
  • One calm first question, word for word, in three tones
  • Read on your phone, tablet or computer

§ 05 · Where these books stop

What these books are, and what they are not

Practical guides, not therapy, medical care or legal advice. They do not diagnose, do not tell you what your partner is doing, and do not promise how it ends. They do not replace a counselor, doctor or lawyer. Digital files (PDF), sent after payment; no personal consultation is included.

§ 06 · The bundle

Get both books for one price

Everything in the bundle

  • I Want More: The Quiet Crisis After 40e-book, PDF · 80 pages · 7 chapters$9.99
  • The Feeling Before the Proofe-book, PDF · 66 pages · 8 chapters$9.99
Both books bought separately$19.98 / €17.94

Plus 6 bonus tools, included

  • 3 bonuses with I Want Morephrases card, daily template, checklistincluded
  • 3 printable bonus tools with The Feeling Before the Proofincluded
Your bundle price$14.99
In euros€13.46
You save$4.99 / €4.48
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  • A first step for both sides of the same question
  • $4.99 less than the two books bought separately
  • Both PDFs by email right after payment

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Can I read them on my phone?

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P.S.

You don't have to know yet which week you're in. The bundle has both books, and they don't repeat each other.